i thought i was ready... i wasn't.
i agreed to it without knowing what it involved.
i went ahead and did it without planning and preparation.
i was not prepared financially.
i was not prepared legally.
both of these things are vital to establish what is most important:
...a sense of security.
no fear of debtors
no fear of employers
no fear of the government
the lesson...
have five to ten thousand dollars saved.
clear any past debt.
have a job that pays at least 50k.
learn about any legal issues involved.
get organized.
be able to provide that which is more important then love...
a sense of security and peace of mind.
now what do i do.